{"id":1165,"date":"2017-01-05T09:48:19","date_gmt":"2017-01-05T14:48:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.helpteaching.com\/blog\/?p=1165"},"modified":"2024-09-18T08:20:40","modified_gmt":"2024-09-18T12:20:40","slug":"5-skills-for-a-better-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.helpteaching.com\/blog\/5-skills-for-a-better-you.html","title":{"rendered":"5 Skills for a Better You in the New Year"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"user-select: auto;\"><a style=\"user-select: auto;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.helpteaching.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/new-year-goals-2015.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-full\" style=\"user-select: auto;\" src=\"http:\/\/www.helpteaching.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/new-year-goals-2015.png\" alt=\"5 Skills for a Better You in the New Year\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\"><\/a><br style=\"user-select: auto;\">Every year, people make New Year\u2019s Resolutions and every year they fail to keep them. The most popular resolution every year is to lose weight, but some of the other <a style=\"user-select: auto;\" href=\"http:\/\/content.time.com\/time\/specials\/packages\/completelist\/0,29569,2040218,00.html\">top resolutions<\/a> may surprise you. Regardless of what resolutions are going to top this year\u2019s list, you only need to make one \u2013 resolve to better yourself. How are you going to do that? We\u2019ve got you covered with a few skills that will lead to a better you this new year.<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"user-select: auto;\">Handle Your Stress<\/h3>\n<p style=\"user-select: auto;\">Now that the craziness of the holidays has died down, it\u2019s time to get back into your normal everyday routines. For high school students, this often means prepping for finals. For others, it means dealing with the stresses that come with work and other daily activities. Rather than letting stressful moments get the best of you this year, take some time to learn to handle your stress.<\/p>\n<p style=\"user-select: auto;\">What are some ways to keep stress from getting the best of you?<\/p>\n<ul style=\"user-select: auto;\">\n<li style=\"user-select: auto;\">The <a style=\"user-select: auto;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.heart.org\/HEARTORG\/GettingHealthy\/StressManagement\/FourWaystoDealWithStress\/Four-Ways-to-Deal-with-Stress_UCM_307996_Article.jsp\">American Heart Association<\/a> recommends using positive self-talk as its number one tip for handling stress.<\/li>\n<li style=\"user-select: auto;\">The <a style=\"user-select: auto;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.apa.org\/helpcenter\/manage-stress.aspx\">American Psychological Association<\/a> encourages you to take a break from the stressor.<\/li>\n<li style=\"user-select: auto;\">The <a style=\"user-select: auto;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.adaa.org\/tips-manage-anxiety-and-stress\">Anxiety and Depression Association of America<\/a> suggests taking a timeout by doing yoga or listening to music and notes the importance of eating healthy, balanced meals.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"user-select: auto;\">Of course, if none of those strategies work, you can also spend some time popping <a style=\"user-select: auto;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.virtual-bubblewrap.com\/popnow.shtml\">virtual bubble wrap<\/a> as a way of calming yourself down. When you learn how to handle your stress you\u2019ll be more productive, healthier, and better able to interact with others.<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"user-select: auto;\">Value Your Time<\/h3>\n<p style=\"user-select: auto;\">People have been saying \u201cif only there were more hours in the day\u201d for centuries. Despite that fact, there are still only 24 hours in a day and you determine how to fill them. This year, start valuing your time by learning how to manage it and making sure you\u2019re devoting your time to things that are important.<\/p>\n<p style=\"user-select: auto;\">Think it\u2019s impossible to create some order in your crazy schedule? Try a few of these tips:<\/p>\n<ul style=\"user-select: auto;\">\n<li style=\"user-select: auto;\">Make a <a style=\"user-select: auto;\" href=\"https:\/\/bigfuture.collegeboard.org\/get-started\/inside-the-classroom\/8-ways-to-take-control-of-your-time\">to-do list<\/a> every day so you know what\u2019s on your plate. Use a piece of paper, the notepad on your phone, or even a fancy online tool such as <a style=\"user-select: auto;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.rememberthemilk.com\/\">Remember the Milk<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li style=\"user-select: auto;\"><a style=\"user-select: auto;\" href=\"https:\/\/ucc.vt.edu\/academic_support\/study_skills_information\/time_scheduling\/where_does_time_go.html\">Assess your time<\/a> to see where you\u2019re spending the most time and then prioritize your activities to make sure you\u2019re spending time on what matters.<\/li>\n<li style=\"user-select: auto;\">Learn how to <a style=\"user-select: auto;\" href=\"http:\/\/fortune.com\/2014\/08\/19\/why-saying-no-gets-you-ahead\/\">say no<\/a> so that you can avoid taking on too much and focus on what\u2019s most important.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"user-select: auto;\">As you learn to value your time, you\u2019ll find that your stress levels will also decrease and that you enjoy what you do much more.<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"user-select: auto;\">Care for Others<\/h3>\n<p style=\"user-select: auto;\">When you\u2019re feeling down or stressed, one of the best things you can do is go care for someone else. Not only do you get to help someone out, but you also take the focus off of yourself and your problems. Caring for others involves more than just helping people out though. It also involves developing empathy, or the ability to put yourself in someone else\u2019s shoes and begin to understand their perspective. You can do this by\u2026<\/p>\n<ul style=\"user-select: auto;\">\n<li style=\"user-select: auto;\">Volunteering for a <a style=\"user-select: auto;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.volunteermatch.org\/\">local charity<\/a><\/li>\n<li style=\"user-select: auto;\">Learning how to be an <a style=\"user-select: auto;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.mindtools.com\/CommSkll\/ActiveListening.htm\">active listener<\/a><\/li>\n<li style=\"user-select: auto;\">Practicing the <a style=\"user-select: auto;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.thersa.org\/events\/video\/archive\/roman-krznaric\">Six Habits of Highly Empathic People<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"user-select: auto;\">When you develop empathy and learn to care for others, you will find yourself better able to deal with others, thereby potentially reducing stress. You\u2019ll also discover some valuable ways to spend your time, making your busy days a little more meaningful.<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"user-select: auto;\">Take Care of Yourself<\/h3>\n<p style=\"user-select: auto;\">People who think about themselves all the time are often thought of as self-centered and shallow. While you can focus on yourself too much, you can also focus on yourself too little. As you learn to care for others, you also need to learn to take care of yourself. If you don\u2019t take care of yourself you can become stressed out and experience other negative emotions. You can also experience health problems, both as a result of those negative emotions and as a result of not treating your body the way you should.<\/p>\n<p style=\"user-select: auto;\">Thankfully, we have a few simple ways to take care of yourself:<\/p>\n<ul style=\"user-select: auto;\">\n<li style=\"user-select: auto;\">Eat <a style=\"user-select: auto;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.hhs.gov\/fitness\/programs-and-awards\/presidents-challenge\/index.html\">balanced meals<\/a> and exercise regularly<\/li>\n<li style=\"user-select: auto;\">Get <a style=\"user-select: auto;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.health.harvard.edu\/press_releases\/importance_of_sleep_and_health\">plenty of sleep<\/a> every night<\/li>\n<li style=\"user-select: auto;\">Learn how to<a style=\"user-select: auto;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.active.com\/health\/articles\/31-ways-to-relax-in-10-minutes-or-less\"> relax<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"user-select: auto;\">When you start to take care of yourself, the other parts of your life start to fall into balance too.<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"user-select: auto;\">Educate Yourself<\/h3>\n<p style=\"user-select: auto;\">Knowledge is the solution to many problems. It can help you build empathy as you learn more about others. It can help you manage your time as you learn ways to complete tasks in a timelier manner. It can also reduce your stress by helping you build new skills to help you advance in your career, do better in school, or allow you to take on activities that you enjoy.<\/p>\n<p style=\"user-select: auto;\">Educating yourself doesn\u2019t have to involve enrolling in an expensive course. A few easy ways to educate yourself include:<\/p>\n<ul style=\"user-select: auto;\">\n<li style=\"user-select: auto;\">Learning to ask effective questions<\/li>\n<li style=\"user-select: auto;\">Taking <a style=\"user-select: auto;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.class-central.com\/\">free online courses<\/a> from top universities<\/li>\n<li style=\"user-select: auto;\">Being willing to fail and <a style=\"user-select: auto;\" href=\"https:\/\/hbr.org\/2011\/04\/strategies-for-learning-from-failure\">learning from failure<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"user-select: auto;\">The more you learn, the more confident you\u2019ll feel about yourself and your abilities and our <a style=\"user-select: auto;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.helpteaching.com\/blog\/top-100-free-education-sites.html\">Top 100 Free Education Sites<\/a> is a great place to start.<\/p>\n<p style=\"user-select: auto;\">How are you going to better yourself this new year? 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