Flowers, candy, and cards decorated with hearts are used by many to express love to that special someone. The day offers many fun and creative ways to teach about friendships, poetry and prose, marriage, and relationships.
History of Valentine’s Day
Despite flowers being the number one gift given on Valentine’s Day, the holiday’s origin is not so rosy.
The real Valentine
The most noted theory about how Valentine’s Day began, is rooted in Ancient Rome. In the third century CE, the Roman emperor Claudius II wanted to develop a fierce team of young men to be soldiers in his legions. It was his belief that when young men are in love, this makes them weak. Naturally, a man with a wife and children tended to be more cautious in how he fought on the battlefield. So, Claudius outlawed marriage for young men serving in the Roman armies.
Well, not everyone or everything can be commanded by an emperor. As Claudius found out, he could outlaw love, but he could not stop it. Young men and women still fell in love and wanted to marry. A brave Christian priest named Valentine, who thought the law was horribly unjust, risked his life to perform the banned wedding ceremonies in secret.
News of Valentine’s clandestine ceremonies made its way back to the emperor. The cleric was arrested, and while in prison, Valentine sent a love letter to a young woman — possibly his jailor’s daughter — who visited him during his imprisonment. He allegedly signed it “From your Valentine”, hence the expression. He was executed soon afterward. Centuries later, when the Roman Catholic Church made the kindly priest a saint, St. Valentine’s feast day — February 14 — was chosen because it was the day he was put to death.
Literature of love
It wasn’t until almost 1,000 years later that the first known Valentine’s Day poem was written. It also was penned by a prisoner, and was sent from the Tower of London to the prisoner’s wife in 1415.
My very gentle Valentine,
Since for me you were born too soon,
And I for you was born too late.
God forgives him who has estranged
Me from you for the whole year.
I am already sick of love,
My very gentle Valentine.
Well, not the most remarkable of poems, but it’s good for a first effort.
Everyone is familiar with Shakespeare’s love sonnets, most notably number 18 which starts out famously:
Shall I compare thee to a summer’s day?
Thou art more lovely and more temperate.
And there’s Scotland’s remarkable bard Robert Burns:
O my Luve is like a red, red rose
That’s newly sprung in June;
O my Luve is like the melody
That’s sweetly played in tune.
So fair art thou, my bonnie lass,
So deep in luve am I;
And I will luve thee still, my dear,
Till a’ the seas gang dry.
And then there are the first love poems written by school kids:
Roses are red
Violets are blue
Faces like yours
Belong in the zoo
The economics of true love
In the 21st century, greeting card companies each year produce over a billion cards of love and affection just for St. Valentine’s Day. The impact that Valentine’s Day has on the U.S. economy is stunning. In 2019, more than $20.7 billion was spent on the holiday. It’s thought the most expensive Valentine’s Day gift ever purchased is a heart shaped 1001 Nights Diamond Purse. Decorated with over 4500 yellow, pink and transparent diamonds totalling 38,192 carats, the retail value of the gift is a gobsmacking $3.8 million.
Valentine’s Day symbols
- Red Roses: the most popular flower of Valentine’s Day, this enduring symbol of passion, beauty, and love has the power to impress anyone when a dozen of the long-stemmed variety are wrapped in a large bouquet. An ancient Roman legend has it that a beautiful maiden, Rodanthe, locked herself indoors while being pursued by overzealous suitors. When they eventually broke down her door, an enraged goddess Diana changed Rodanthe into a beautiful red rose and turned the suitors into thorns.
- Cupid: He was the son of Venus (goddess of love) and Mercury (the winged messenger of the gods). This mischievous little god carried around a quiver of arrows tipped with love potion. Anyone struck by one of Cupid’s arrows would fall in love with the first person they saw.
- Chocolates: Since ancient times, chocolates have been associated with sensuality and fertility. This is perhaps because when eaten, chocolate stimulates the production of a hormone that is similar to the chemical produced when a person is in love.
Valentine’s Day Around the World
Although Valentine’s Day started as a Catholic feast day, the saint’s death and the tradition of love that he exemplified is celebrated worldwide by people of many faiths. People send cards, flowers, and candy in many countries.
- In the Philippines, Valentine’s Day is the time when many young couples marry in an event sponsored by the government as a form of public service
- In Ghana, February 14 is celebrated as “National Chocolate Day”. The Ghana government established this day in 2007 to increase tourism in the country, as Ghana is among the largest cocoa-producing countries in the world.
- In Bulgaria on February 14, the “day of winemakers” (San Trifon Zartan) is celebrated. Young and old couples celebrate their love with a glass of local wine.
- In Denmark, Valentine’s Day is not limited to roses and chocolates. Friends and lovers exchange handmade cards with pressed white flowers that are called snowdrops
- In Estonia, February 14 is celebrated as a friendship day known as Sobrapaev. This festival includes everyone, from couples to singles
- In Japan on February 14, women buy gifts and chocolates for their male companions. Men can’t return gifts until March 14, which is called the “white day”.
- In England on Valentine’s Day, women used to place five bay leaves on their pillows. It was believed this would bring them dreams of their future husbands.
In Slovenia, St. Valentine is a patron saint of spring. It’s thought that on February 14, plants start to regenerate. This day marks the first day of working in the fields for the New Year. Slovenians also believe that birds ‘propose’ to each other on this day, and to witness this occasion, one must walk barefoot through the frozen fields.
Resources for Teaching about and around Valentine’s Day
Help Teaching has many fun educational resources which use the holiday to teach math and English.
- Valentine’s Day Multiplication
- Valentine’s Day Reading Passage
- Valentine’s Day Writing Prompt
- Valentine’s Day Silly Writing
- Valentine’s Day Reading a Chart
- Valentine’s Day Reading Passage
- Valentine’s Day Rhymes
- Valentine’s Day Word Scramble
- Valentine’s Day Word Sort
- Valentine’s Day Big and Small
- Valentine’s Day Math
- Valentine’s Day 10’s
- Valentine’s Day Money
- Valentine’s Day Repeated Addition
- Valentine’s Day Fractions
- Valentine’s Day Multiplication
- Valentine’s Day Division
- Valentine’s Day Probability
- Write Every Day: Valentine’s Day
- Valentine’s Day
- 139 Free Valentine’s Day Worksheets & Activities
- Reading Comprehension: Some Hilarious Valentine’s True Stories
- Speaking: Valentine’s Day Around the World
- Vocabulary: Valentine’s Crossword
- Grammar: Cupid’s Solution (Valentine’s Day Lesson Plan)
- And more!
- Valentine’s Day lesson plans for toddlers and preK from 123 Learn Curriculum
- ReadWriteThink has Valentine’s Day lessons plans for grades 3-12
- Teachwriting.org offers “Five Unique Valentine’s Day Lessons to Target Essential Skills in Secondary Classes”
- “No-fluff lesson ideas for Valentine’s Day” for high school grades from Mud and Ink Teaching
- Edutopia.org offers a 5-Minute Film Festival: 7 Videos on Love for Valentine’s Day
- I Choose Joy has a boatload of videos embedded in its blog “25 Inspired Ideas for Valentine’s Day in Your Homeschool”
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